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Early Black Friday Sale-All Courses at Huge Discounts

Early Black Friday Sale-All Courses at Huge Discounts

Hi friends, I’m excited to share an early Black Friday sale on all my Udemy courses! For a limited time, you can enroll in any of my programs — from personal growth and emotional mastery to communication or leadership excellence — at HUGELY discounted prices.  If you’ve been waiting to strengthen your relationships, deepen your […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.


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One Couples Journey Through the Stages of Marriage

One Couples Journey Through the Stages of Marriage

When Tom and Laura met, something clicked instantly. Their first date stretched for hours as they talked over coffee, walked by the river, and found themselves laughing like old friends. For weeks afterward, they called and texted each other constantly, stayed up late, and told friends they’d “never felt anything like this before.” Tom was […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.


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How to Make Change Stick

How to Make Change Stick

I read a lot. Although I love fiction, most of my reading is on self-help and spiritual topics. I’m intrigued by books related to personal and relationship development. And sometimes I notice myself going from one great book to another without allowing time to fully digest what I’m reading. Although I’ve found great value in […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.


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How to Find Peace in a Stressful World

How to Find Peace in a Stressful World

“It’s easier to put on slippers than to carpet the whole world.”  Anthony de Mello I think you would agree that we live in an increasingly stressful world in which the uncertainties of life never seem to let up. As if the challenges of day-to-day living were not enough, many of us are dealing with […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.


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Grief vs. Drama

Grief vs. Drama

We all experience negative emotion. It is a natural part of life. Not only would our lives be boring without the ups and downs of our emotions, but negative emotions are how we learn and grow and become better, stronger human beings. Think about this. Without experiences that trigger such feelings as fear, hurt, loneliness, […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.


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Let Yourself Feel Sad: A Path to Healing from Depression

Let Yourself Feel Sad: A Path to Healing from Depression

Most of us try to avoid sadness. When we feel low or down, we distract ourselves or push those feelings away. But neuroscience shows that allowing yourself to feel sadness—rather than avoiding it—can actually support your recovery from depression and negative moods. This process is crucial when healing from depression. The Science Behind Feeling Your […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.


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The Skill of Affirming Others

The Skill of Affirming Others

In my last post, I talked about using affirming statements as a way of uplifting others, boosting motivation, and reinforcing desired behaviors. My experience is that well-chosen words can have an immediate and lasting impact. I now want to go one step further by sharing the skill of affirming others, specific steps that will make […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.


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Affirming Others

Affirming Others

We all want to feel seen and valued. At our core, we long to know that we matter—that our actions, presence, and efforts are recognized by others. One of the most powerful ways to meet this need is through the skill of affirming others: recognizing people for their contributions, character, or efforts in a sincere […]

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