self-care

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Honoring Others Without Losing Yourself

Honoring Others Without Losing Yourself

One of the quiet struggles many thoughtful people carry is this tension: How do I honor others without disappearing in the process? If you grew up valuing kindness, responsibility, or emotional awareness, you may have learned early how to be considerate of others. You learned to listen, accommodate, and smooth things over. Over time, those […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.


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Prioritizing Self-Care

Prioritizing Self-Care

Finding balance between exertion and relaxation, work and play, is good for your health. And the good news is that there are lots of ways to bring balance and more self-care into your life if you make it a priority.

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.


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You Better Take Good Care of Yourself to Have a Happy Marriage

You Better Take Good Care of Yourself to Have a Happy Marriage

A belief of mine is that you have to take good care of yourself to have a healthy and happy relationship. Taking good care of yourself is your job and not something you can sluff onto your partner. Of course, the beginning of a relationship feels so different. I was just scanning face book yesterday […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.


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