Empowering people to make strengthening choices
Most conflict doesn’t begin with the present moment. In fact, most emotional triggers in relationships begin with something from your past. A look, a tone, a comment that seems small on the surface—and suddenly your body reacts before your mind can catch up. Your heart races. Your chest tightens. Words come out sharper than you […]
Many couples believe they have a communication problem. They say things like: “We just can’t talk without it turning into an argument.” “No matter how I say it, it comes out wrong.” “We go in circles.” On the surface, couples want to know how to stop arguing in a conversation, so communication seems like the […]
One of the quiet struggles many thoughtful people carry is this tension: How do I honor others without disappearing in the process? If you grew up valuing kindness, responsibility, or emotional awareness, you may have learned early how to be considerate of others. You learned to listen, accommodate, and smooth things over. Over time, those […]
As we approach the close of another year, I find myself asking more than the question, “Where did the time go?” I’m asking something deeper: What have I learned? Who have I become? How am I different today than I was 365 days ago? Of course, it is so easy to notice the passage of […]
I read a lot. Although I love fiction, most of my reading is on self-help and spiritual topics. I’m intrigued by books related to personal and relationship development. And sometimes I notice myself going from one great book to another without allowing time to fully digest what I’m reading. Although I’ve found great value in […]
Most of us try to avoid sadness. When we feel low or down, we distract ourselves or push those feelings away. But neuroscience shows that allowing yourself to feel sadness—rather than avoiding it—can actually support your recovery from depression and negative moods. This process is crucial when healing from depression. The Science Behind Feeling Your […]
Hello my friend, Today, I want to talk about a reactive mindset. I know from my own experience as well as working with thousands of people that it is easy to be reactive. By reactive I mean we let events, circumstances, and other people determine our feelings and/or actions and then we act in ways […]
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