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On Saying Our “Goodbyes”

On Saying Our “Goodbyes”

We are continually coming and going and so “Hellos” and “Goodbyes” are a natural part of our lives. Even though small, these are actually quite meaningful moments as we greet and depart from each other.

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.

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Serenity: The Pathway to Fulfillment

Serenity: The Pathway to Fulfillment

In my last article, I introduced four stages of adult development: Survival, Security, Success, and Serenity. While most of us are familiar with the first three, Serenity is often misunderstood. Many people assume that fulfillment is the reward for success–that once they achieve enough, acquire enough, or accomplish enough peace and happiness will naturally follow. […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.

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Are You Ready to Map Out Your Journey?

Are You Ready to Map Out Your Journey?

“With a clue like this, by Christopher, we’ll have Flint’s treasure if it takes a year!” You probably remember the story of Treasure Island, although, depending on your age, your exposure to the story might have come via the original story by Robert Lewis Stephenson, the movie by Disney, the wacky Muppets version, or even […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.

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What’s Your Vision?

What’s Your Vision?

Remember the analogy you used when we started this quest for self actualization?  We compared it to a journey.  You’ve packed up your tools, assessed your strengths and weakness and gotten to know your traveling companions.  Now take your map out and spread it out on the table in front of you.  It’s time to […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.

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Are You Living A Life Of Passion?

Are You Living A Life Of Passion?

After a life-time of juggling a job, kids, and a busy household, Kate lives alone in a small house in a quite suburb, where she keeps her garden, reads volume after volume of historical fiction, and has her dearest friends over once a month for a Bible study. She is happy.

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.

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The Serenity Model will Increase Your Emotional Maturity

The Serenity Model will Increase Your Emotional Maturity

Do you ever read the headlines on the celebrity rags in the grocery store check-out lines? This one is in rehab. This one is getting a divorce (again). This one feels (or at least looks) like a new woman after massive cosmetic surgery. What would it take to make you happy? The answers that pop […]

By Roger K. Allen, Ph.D.

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