Empowering people to make strengthening choices
Many couples reach a discouraging conclusion after years of unresolved conflict: “We’ve talked about this so many times—and nothing ever changes.” When conflict becomes repetitive, it can feel pointless to keep trying. Hope fades. Conversations feel scripted. Both partners know exactly how the argument will end before it even begins. This is the nature of recurring […]
Many Conflicts Are Really About Unspoken Assumptions Many marital conflicts don’t begin with bad intentions. They begin with unspoken expectations. One partner feels disappointed. The other feels blindsided. Both feel justified. And neither is entirely sure how the gap opened in the first place. When expectations go unnamed or unexamined, they subtly shape how partners interpret […]
Recurring arguments in relationships Most couples don’t argue about what they think they’re arguing about. On the surface, the conflict might be about money, parenting, sex, chores, or time. But beneath the content of the argument is usually something more personal—and more vulnerable. When couples miss this deeper layer, conflict becomes repetitive, exhausting, and confusing. The […]
Most couples think conflict goes wrong because someone gets angry, defensive, or refuses to listen. But the bigger problem is usually that they move to solutions before creating enough safety and understanding for resolution to occur. Healthy couples resolve conflict differently. They follow a sequence, not perfectly but intentionally. And that sequence makes a huge […]
A hallmark of Mature Love is the ability of two partners to share their deeper thoughts, feelings, and needs—and to make room for their partner to do the same. And yet, it is remarkably easy to fall into a negative pattern of interacting by arguing, defending, controlling, accommodating, or avoiding. These styles can feel protective […]
Most of us enter marriage with hope, good intentions, and a desire to build a great life together. But few of us are ever taught the practical relational skills that sustain love over time. We may know how to fall in love. But many of us were never taught how to: Navigate conflict without damaging the […]
We grow up believing that love is the foundation of a strong marriage. And it is. Love matters deeply. It not only brings partners together but inspires sacrifice, devotion, and the desire to keep showing up for one another. But love alone is not enough. That may sound surprising—even unsettling—because many of us were taught […]
Most conflict doesn’t begin with the present moment. In fact, most emotional triggers in relationships begin with something from your past. A look, a tone, a comment that seems small on the surface—and suddenly your body reacts before your mind can catch up. Your heart races. Your chest tightens. Words come out sharper than you […]
As a counselor, I found the insights and strategies to be incredibly valuable. The knowledge and skills have not only deepened my understanding of effective parenting but have also enriched my ability to support other families in navigating the challenges they face. I was particularly impressed by your emphasis on fostering open communication and building strong relationships within families. Your strategies for effective communication, active listening, and conflict resolution are not only applicable but also transformative. With utmost enthusiasm, I wholeheartedly recommend this course to fellow counselors, parents, and anyone invested in fostering positive family dynamics
Student Counselor AKES program, and student in Parenting to Raise Responsible, Mature Children
Thank you does not express the emotion I feel when I think of you! You have taught me so much and I live you and thank you for all you have done for me and my family. Thanks for the love and guidance when I thought I was lost. Thanks for validating my feelings and supporting me in my life.
student in Making Things Happen Seminar and a number of online courses
The Hero’s Choice is a very powerful and compelling story. It will make you smile and it will also move you to tears. The writing style and story line reminds me of Og Mandino’s books. If you love his books you will surely love this one
mentor and coach; founder of Teach the Soul and top Amazon reviewer
As a counselor who uses positive psychology, this has been a very enlightening course; not only for use in future sessions, but also on a personal level as I did the exercises. My only regret is coming to the end. Loved the engaging teaching style.”
student in Claiming Your Power to Live a Happy and Abundant Life
The course is short and concise as the author defines a process with actionable steps and guidelines for handling difficult conversations. In the last sections, there are some common scenarios in which you can see how the whole process comes into play and recognize the notions outlined in the first part. Before taking the course, I was clueless on how to even approach such a discussion, but now I feel like I have the notions and the tools to improve my confrontational skills.
student in Performance Management: Confronting Poor Performance
Prior to your training, I had success, but felt trapped in a life that was void of meaning and purpose. But this experience changed my life. It brought about a fresh perspective, a view that I had not seen before. That was four years ago. My journal and workbook are still with me all of the time, and I reflect on the goals that have been accomplished since the retreat. My long-term vision remains, clearly in front of me as I continue to create new goals that are congruent with this vision
consultant and participant in Life Quest Seminar
